School is going….

I just wrapped up another set of classes. This time around I started two classes, Sociology and Literature in the beginning and then started another one a month in, History of Science. So for the last month I have been taking three classes at once. I’m not going to lie, I felt overwhelmed at times. I felt like I had a paper due every week. With the grades I have in the classes now I am pretty sure they will stay the same and will be leaving these classes with an A. I’m happy to say that I have completed my general ed, well, except for my math class I am taking next. I’m still not sure if they are telling me that trigonometry is what is needed for my general ed to be competed but I will find out. Ugh! My brain is going to be working overtime trying to stay on top of all that. I am really testing my abilities by taking an 8 week math course but it’s got to be done. Wish me luck!

In January I will have to take four classes at a time which is making me want to change over to a physical college. I live close to one so I will have to really look into before January to see if that is the route I should go.




First Year completed


1yr down

My first year at American Public University is complete and so far completed Anthropology, 3 English classes, American Government, American History to 1877, Geography, Spanish, and 1 math class. If you think you can’t go to school and do life at the same time I highly recommend this school. There are so many educational options to choose from and it is affordable. My second year will start off a little slow but after the first of the year I will be taking longer classes and more at once to make sure I meet my goal of completing school on time. I have started working (volunteering) in a field that has to do with my future career and I hope to start my career here either as a part time or full time employee. Some days I feel like my brain is mush but it is so worth it.

Thank you for following my journey. I am so excited to be following my dream and when you hear or read my words that say do something you are passionate about, understand that I truly mean that. Some days I feel like I am so far behind because I should have started and completed this so long ago. Sometimes it takes me a minute to get that out of my head but I shake it off and keep pushing on. I am so lucky to have such a great supportive family.

Year two of my journey to my dream career is coming up so stay tuned.




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Still moving along


Just wanted to give a quick update since I haven’t been on my blog for a while. I think the last time I wrote I was working on my Geography class and my Math class. I passed Geography with a B and I am still in my math class as it’s a 16 week course instead of an 8 week course. I am doing well, maintaining a B+ so it’s promising. I am having a hard time with algebraic equations but that will come after more practice. The instructor is very helpful and encouraging. I am taking an English class right now on Scientific writing and so far it’s great. I am really starting to enjoy writing and learning what words to use and not and what words are used as fillers. I have to stay away from those now.  Scientific writing is very precise and factual with no emotion. I thought it would be hard to not write with emotion but have found it easier than I thought.

I am approaching my first full year in college, in September, and things are really starting to work out. I found that there are programs to join  for women in Science. I have been following a lot of relevant people on Twitter and I have been trying to pay attention to all of the issues pertaining my new career. Something a little disheartening though is that not a lot of my Facebook friends really seem to care. I guess living on this planet is just an inevitable and doing things to help maintain it’s existence and ours are a complete after thought. When I really look at the big picture we all play a role somehow either in politics, science, or a natural citizen.

Within my first year  I have been doing well and managing my time great so far. I start volunteering at a local aquarium and I couldn’t be any more excited about it. Truly a dream come true. Its pretty awesome to have such a great support team. I love them beyond measure.

I should be finishing up my classes in the next few weeks and will try and stay updated on my progress.


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Please understand my passion when I say, PLEASE DO WHAT YOU LOVE. I have spent most of my younger years doing just what I needed to get by because I had kids to care for and needed to make sure we had a roof over our head, food in our bellies, and clothes on our back. For some, this struggle is daily and their passion for what they love has faded or eluded them because they think they can’t achieve it with all the obstacles set in front of them. After recently reading an article about being a mediocre mom because you are trying to balance a career and a life, I understand. You can’t always balance the two but what you can do is manage. No matter how many books are out there about how to be a parent and how to manage each stage of their life, you can never really be prepared to be a parent. One thing we can understand is being their age at every stage. If they get caught doing something stupid, you still have to punish them because well, how will they learn? It’s often like that scene from The Incredibles, where flash was caught putting a tack on his teachers chair and at the dinner table the mom is telling the dad about what he did and he becomes very interested and almost excited. We know our kids will do silly things throughout their childhood days but we have to refrain because we want them to be better. We want them to live their dream because we couldn’t. We need to set the example, be the example because whatever you are, your kids will be. If you’re a mom, and like me raised a few to adulthood and started over, you realize what you should’ve did different in the beginning to make sure you and they were happy. One thing to remember about family life is, that if the parents are happy so are the kids. I’m not saying that I am unhappy but I am dissatisfied with my choices. We are never too old or never too young to make changes. Many people do it every day to make their dreams come true. Quit the excuses and put your big girl panties on or big boy briefs on and make it happen. Excuses are the thing of the past. If you keep making excuses that’s what your life will end up being. There is always time for change. Don’t get me wrong the struggle will be more real than ever, but the big question at job interviews are is, “Where do you see yourself in five years?” Are you going to tell the manager at a fast food restaurant, “I see myself here, working the same nine to five, day in and day out because really I can’t see myself doing anything else” NOT! What you really want to say is, “Because I have to if I want to keep my apartment or house, car, pay my bills, and keep my family fed.” Shucks, did they see themselves still working there asking you that question? Don’t get me wrong, if that’s what you want to do all of your life, then that must make you happy. If that is what you are doing now and after reading that last sentence you say no it doesn’t make me happy I do it because I have to, then you need to rethink some things. Now, notice I have said throughout these words I presented for you, that you will have struggles because I know it won’t be easy. Nothing is ever easy if you really want it. 

I have told my kids all their lives to do something that they love and I still believe that. We all have obstacles and how we chose to maneuver around them is what defines us. Most of us are worried about what others will think, and really you should stop thinking that way. Be selfish about your happiness. I’m not saying be a jerk to do what you love, I am saying do what makes you happy and still be a good person. It’s a known fact that no matter what, when you grow up, you must work and pay bills. That is, of course, if you want to hang out with your friends, travel, and have a great time. If you are that young person, who like myself, that is having a baby and think I can never get this done now, you’re lying to yourself because the obstacles you have to maneuver now are harder. Going on welfare won’t help you because if you go to school full time they will shut you down. God forbid you do something that could get you on your feet and off of welfare. So, if you still decide to stay on welfare, you must do it all. Online is the way now. If I had this option back in the day I would be a Marine Biologist already and passed all of these math classes that I am dreading to take.

Again, please do what you love and know that your struggle will hopefully last less than those five years that the fast food manager asked about. 

Good Luck!


Another Semester Completed


Another completed semester is complete and I’m off to my next set of classes next week. I know I haven’t been updating my blog these past few months because of work but now I am back on the grind. Having wrapped up my semester with another A, I am back to my same routine with two classes at a time. My next set are Math and Geography and I can’t wait. I have a lab with my Geography class and it said that if you are not a Natural Sciences major, maybe this class isn’t for you. That got me so excited. I can’t believe I am actually pursuing my dream. Sometimes I have to pinch myself because sometimes it seems so unreal but, I am so glad that things have fallen into place and I am able to be where I am. Thank you all for your support and keeping me motivated.



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Wrap up

I am done with my first set of second semester classes. I have found it very challenging to work and go to school but I did pretty well. My History class before 1877 I found to be very interesting. I feel like I learned more about our US History now then when I was in high school. But then again this is college. My final grade was posted today at a B+. My Spanish class was fun and I learned so much about the Spanish language and culture. One thing I gained from this class was not only knowledge but also how hard it is to learn another language. I don’t ever want to hear someone say they should learn our language unless they have tried themselves to learn and master another language. Although I can’t have a conversation I can at least pick out some words. Definitely taking Spanish II. My final grade hasn’t been posted yet but I’m sure it will be a B. I know I’m still very early in my college courses but I’m feeling pretty good. I will be starting my core classes soon and I am super nervous. Next for me is English 102 and College Algebra yikes. Wish me luck.



I don’t have a lot of time lately to keep up on my blog because I have been working. I commend anyone who does this on a full-time basis. I am doing well but I could be doing better. I am finding Spanish is really fun but frustrating as well. Who ever said Rosetta Stone was easy is a liar. My complaint is that I don’t know what I am saying majority of the time except when I am shown a single picture of something. Trying to put a sentence together is a little difficult. I have downloaded a few other apps to help me with it. Also, my coworker is helping me out with it. History is going good, it is very interesting and just proving to me the human race hasn’t only just started to be stupid, they always have been. Geez! Somehow learning from our past isn’t working so I am hoping the human race, no one specific, gets it together. Maybe we just need to have a really big party with food, no alcohol, to eat and have a great time. Food usually units people. To simple and unrealistic I know. So, for now just know things are going well as I figure out the best schedule that works for me and work.


First Semester Complete

This post will be short because I am just posting to report that my first semester of school is complete and I closed it out with a GPA of 3.33. I know that may not be awesome for some smarty pants out there but it’s great for me. I meeting my goal of staying over the 3.0 GPA. I am glad I started this blog because I get to track my progression through my words and hopefully I have kept up the good grades through to the end of my second semester. Yay me!


Happy New Year – 2017


Happy New Year Everyone! Hope your new year has started off great. My family and I have had a great lazy day that included watching movies and football all day. Today is the last day of my last set of classes for the summer session. At least that is what the school calls it. I am now approaching my winter courses that start tomorrow. The next set of classes are Spanish and History before 1877. I must start thinking about my set of classes after what I have already scheduled. I have come to realize that after this next semester I will be done with my General Ed and I will be moving onto my core classes. I am so excited about it. Once I start taking the core classes, that is it, I am moving closer and closer to my dream. I am so happy. 

I am moving into the new year with positive thoughts and on a mission to meet my goals for school. There are a lot of upcoming changes in our family for 2017. Our two older kids are starting boot camp, my oldest is married now with a baby on the way and we are still making moves to find our place here in Georgia. One thing I must remember is to stay positive and to have faith. 2017 is going to be a great year for all of us.

As I say that, I wish you all a great 2017 and thanks for following my blog.




Destination..Dream job


I am so excited to announce that I have officially changed my major to Natural Sciences with a concentration in Biology! I am so thankful that I have found a school that works with both my personal life and my career goals. If it wasn’t for me writing a paper in English class I would have been working towards a career that wasn’t my passion. It may have taken me a while and I wont be the youngest but, I have always said that being a Marine Biologist is my dream job. Now I can finally say that I am working towards this dream. It wasn’t until I recently started to look more into it, I found out how many career choices I have. I feel really great about that. I have a lot of hard work to do to get there, mainly it’s the math that scares me, but I really want to do this and I am so up for the challenge. I can’t wait, four years from now, to tell you that I have my bachelor’s in Biology. After that I will be working on a Masters degree and after that my Ph.D. So maybe, within ten years time you can call me Dr. Jen. That is crazy to me but wow what an accomplishment it will be. I’M SO EXCITED!!!!!